What you do Lindsay is anything you have to protect yourself and your loved ones. I am a firm believer in catching flies with honey. Gandhi is a hero of mine. But if you let someone kill you for an ideal, as worthy as that ideal may be, you are giving over your karma to them. And that is bad karma. We are responsible for our lives and the work of our lives. And sometimes it means making hard decisions. People who would harm us take that on themselves. We can’t take the consequenses away from them.