My best friend is celebrating 20 years with her Match.com husband. I had a match.com marriage that failed. But so did my college marriage. My first personals were before the internet. In the Classified in the Bay Guardian. Lots of fun. A manila envelope with letters once a week. It was like Christmas. Thirty years later I’m still friends on Facebook with a great guy I met and writing about my memories on Medium. So much for dating.