I’m old enough to know that a father who shames his daughter by commenting on his daughter’s breasts is sexually inappropriate to say the least. As an adult you’re entitled to wear what you want and shake off your father’s sexism. I’m glad you find a lot of support here and hopefully elsewhere in your life. It’s not aproblem that will go away soon, but when women speak up and speak out as you have, it’s a start. Thank you for your bravery.