I gave you 50 claps in part to help you get the money back. However much you think it is. But also because you touched a very sensitive nerve. Which would be more sensitive if the man I used to be married to and who suffered a financial disaster at my hands (only $500 but it was 1960 and the last paycheck we would get for a very long time-mistakes were made let’s just say (thrown out with the junk mail-note passive voice to ease away from responsibility)) was still alive to recall the disaster. So I can relate, but it was not the reason the marriage failed. Great writing.